If we’re going to react to her happy news, surely we should be
congratulating and celebrating? Yet the singer has been targeted by Twitter
bullies, who made dark, threatening comments about her new baby.
"... the singer has been targeted by Twitter bullies, who made dark, threatening comments about her new baby."
One of the less offensive tweets read: "Adele’s so fat that
no-one ever even knew she was pregnant."
Bullying celebrities on Twitter is nothing new.
This summer’s Olympic celebrations were marred when an infamous Tweeter targeted
swimmer Tom Daley with hate messages. If you look at the replies column of any
actor, musician or well known personality, the statements of support and
admiration will be interspersed with negative, unkind words.
Twitter is a great equaliser. The rich and famous are no longer remote - you can say anything to anyone in 140 characters as long as they have an account. And more often than not, these interactions are a source of joy. Artists love hearing positive reactions to their work, and fans love having conversations with their idols. But Twitter also takes down the barriers that protect artists from the hate and envy of others. It’s often observed that Twitter bullies would never have the guts to take their hate offline and go out of their way to offend a celebrity in person. So why on earth do they do it on the internet?
Twitter is a great equaliser. The rich and famous are no longer remote - you can say anything to anyone in 140 characters as long as they have an account. And more often than not, these interactions are a source of joy. Artists love hearing positive reactions to their work, and fans love having conversations with their idols. But Twitter also takes down the barriers that protect artists from the hate and envy of others. It’s often observed that Twitter bullies would never have the guts to take their hate offline and go out of their way to offend a celebrity in person. So why on earth do they do it on the internet?
"Words can hurt people."
It’s easy to forget that Twitter is personal. When you choose
to attack a celebrity, they might seem so rich, successful and powerful that
they’re immune to vulnerable feelings. But words can hurt people - it doesn’t
matter how many albums they have sold or awards they have won. It’s very unusual
to hate people for the sake of it - but hate is a very straightforward way of
expressing envy or jealousy. I hope that none of the Twitter bullies genuinely
wish any harm on Adele or her baby, but I’m certain that many of them envy her
talent, success and lifestyle.
If you’re about to tweet abuse at someone, ask yourself why
they make you feel negative. Once you’ve worked out what it is that you resent
about their life, you can figure out what’s missing from your own, and start
thinking about how to make that happen. If all else fails, think about whether
you would walk up to that person and make that comment face to face. If the
answer is no, you’re in no position to hit ‘send’.
Do you agree with this? Join the debate on Twitter using the
hashtag #socialvoices or leave a comment below.
Daisy Buchanan writes about
anything from feminism to reality telly for Sabotage Times, Vagenda and
Huffington Post. She tweets a lot - if you like pictures of rude signs and silly
puns, she's @notrollergirl.
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